This is my first post about sex. In a recent break from Facebook (I'm leaving entirely soon and I think you should too), I realized that the topic I most often wanted to post about was sex and sexuality. That was the best result of my Facebook hiatus, and a surprising one. So, I've decided to blog about it sometimes and to be out about being sex-positive and my strong opinions on this topic.
I'm a bisexual and polyamorous person. I've had many long-term, overlapping relationships with people at the same time throughout my entire adult life. I don't view this as better than monogamy, in fact I personally think it's a bit like being gay - it's a way some people are oriented. (Although, many people say they are poly because they want to sleep around, and I think that's a different thing, also not to be ashamed of, but different.)
It's sometimes the bane of my existence that I tend to mostly have male partners, and they're nearly all straight. Why????????? I would love nothing more than to fuck all these wonderful humans at the same time and to be in a relationship with them together, nerding and listening to music and intellectually sparring and being maximum silly.
Today I decided that the remedy to this situation is clearly to develop relationships with more women, because most women I know are bisexual. Maybe then we could rotate who the guy is ;P.
I hope this made you laugh and also think about new sexual possibilities.
Love and nudibranch sex,
P.S. safe sex and thorough consent is hot