I've been designing the infrastructure for an international social network based on regenerative culture for the past 8 years and have not had much time for making art. As the team comes into place and I'm no longer having to hold the whole thing in my brain or wear all the hats.... I'm starting to have more space in my life for art and music again. I found something small to start with!
I did a lot of needlepoint art as a kid. I love the rich colors of thread and the mathematical puzzle and rhythms of doing cross-stitch. Can't wait to hang this on the wall and smile and be reminded of the loveliness of vaginas and the feminine in the world.
Pattern by ArtistGiftsCo on Etsy.
This is my first post about sex. In a recent break from Facebook (I'm leaving entirely soon and I think you should too), I realized that the topic I most often wanted to post about was sex and sexuality. That was the best result of my Facebook hiatus, and a surprising one. So, I've decided to blog about it sometimes and to be out about being sex-positive and my strong opinions on this topic.
I'm a bisexual and polyamorous person. I've had many long-term, overlapping relationships with people at the same time throughout my entire adult life. I don't view this as better than monogamy, in fact I personally think it's a bit like being gay - it's a way some people are oriented. (Although, many people say they are poly because they want to sleep around, and I think that's a different thing, also not to be ashamed of, but different.)
It's sometimes the bane of my existence that I tend to mostly have male partners, and they're nearly all straight. Why????????? I would love nothing more than to fuck all these wonderful humans at the same time and to be in a relationship with them together, nerding and listening to music and intellectually sparring and being maximum silly.
Today I decided that the remedy to this situation is clearly to develop relationships with more women, because most women I know are bisexual. Maybe then we could rotate who the guy is ;P.
I hope this made you laugh and also think about new sexual possibilities.
Love and nudibranch sex,
P.S. safe sex and thorough consent is hot